Love Never Fails: 1 Corinthians 13:1-13

1 Corinthians 13:1-13: "1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. 2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing. 4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part. 10 But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away. 11 When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. 12 For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known. 13 And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love."

That the Feast of St. Valentine falls on Quinquagesima, which is today, is a result of a movable feast day (Quinquagesima) coinciding with an immovable feast (St. Valentine). Therefore, the Epistle reading for Quinquagesima, which is taken from St. Paul's first Epistle to the Church at Corinth, the thirteenth chapter, beginning at the first verse, seems to be specifically chosen for the Feast of St. Valentine. After all, the Epistle speaks about love, and to the world, that is what the Feast of St. Valentine is all about, love. But this is not the case, this Epistle is appointed for this day, because it fits in nicely with the Gospel reading from St. Luke 18. The Gospel for today starts out with our Lord proclaiming, "Behold, we are going up to Jerusalem!" His death and burial wait for Him in Jerusalem, and so, it is His love for us that prompts Him to go to Jerusalem.

This is the love that the Blessed St. Paul is referring to in his First Epistle to the Church at Corinth. It is our Savior's love, which does not fail. It is on account of this love of our Savior that St. Paul sings this song about love. Love is all about doing for others, and not for oneself. Love is about sacrifice. That means that love is an action. Love is not a feeling. As if love was some abstract thing that nobody is able to put a handle on. No, love requires action, whether that action be in thought, word, or deed. And that action means putting one's needs below the needs of others around them.

This is of course, why this text comes on the last day of our preparation for Lent, for to be truly prepared for Lent, one must have a true spirit of Christian love. This is why the season of Lent has often been associated with fasting. One fasts, that is, limits what one eats and spends, so that he may give what he would normally use to those who need it. This is why on Ash Wednesday in the Gospel we will hear about fasting, and alms-giving, and prayer. These three things, which we practice throughout Lent, show our love for our fellowman. For we limit the food we eat, so that we might provide a meal for those who would otherwise not have it. We use the money that we saved from the groceries we would buy, to give to those who are in need, and this would include the Mission congregations of the Church, who need our gifts to further the mission of Christ on Earth of calling sinners to repentance. And third, we pray for all those who have need, especially for those outside the Church, that our Lord God would lead them into His flock.

We certainly, are to do these things, all the time, that is, care for our neighbor, and pray for him. But during the season of Lent, we are provided with constant reminders of our duty to the Second Table of the Law. Therefore, the Blessed Apostle, St. Paul, gives us a reminder of what love entails, so that we may be prepared to humble ourselves, and care for other people above ourselves, so that the Word of God, may take root in the soil of men's hearts, and produce the enlightenment that the Word of God produces. Just like it did for the blind man in today's Gospel reading.

Here we are given a different sense of what Lent is all about, for we are often tempted to think that Lent is supposed to be a dreary season, where we are not allowed to have any fun. Well, if showing love to one's neighbor, if sacrificing one's desires, for someone else's needs, if giving to the poor, and praying for those in need is a dreary concept to us, then we need to further examine our own hearts. For a heart that is full of love, gives without prodding, and sacrifices itself without having to be told. It is the heart of Christ, which suffered and died for those who hated Him. And all those who have been baptized, have received the heart of Christ, they have been given a heart a love, a heart that looks to the needs of others, before it looks to one's own needs.

This is what love is to the Church. It is a heart that takes action, and shows the love of Christ which dwells within it. This is much different than the love of the world, which is often self-seeking. The love of the world, is most often about amorous feelings, and often unrequited. We hear these stories all the time, about someone pining for someone, and the other person not being interested, so that the person who has amorous feelings for the other person must resort to some sort of scheme to woo them into loving them.

Our Lord Jesus Christ loves us and the world. His love for the world is unrequited, and in many cases, is met with hatred. But our Lord Jesus does not resort to schemes, He doesn't use smooth words, or gifts to lure us into loving Him. He instead loves us regardless of whether or not we love Him. This is what is called "unconditional love." It is love that doesn't need loving back for it to be validated. This is the kind of love our Lord Jesus showed for us and the world on the cross. He suffered and died for us, while we were still enemies. Is this not what our Lord Jesus said in the Sermon on the Mount, that we should love our enemies. We should not be consumed with revenge, or getting back at the people who don't love us back, but we should still pray that they would cease their enmity between us, and walk with us in meekness and in peace. For it is God's place to punish His enemies, and those who are our enemies because of our love for Him. It is our place to pray for them, that they might no longer be enemies of God and us.

Love produces joy in the person who practices it, and receives it. Therefore, we have joy in our Lord Jesus for showing His love for us, by His suffering and death on the cross. The same is true of acts of love, such as fasting, alms-giving, and prayer, when these things are done out of love for our fellowman. These acts bring the people who benefit from it joy. And it is their joy that brings us joy, and creates in us a desire to do these things even more.

Therefore, the Feast of St. Valentine provides us, along with the entire Lenten season, an opportunity to show the true love of Christ, which dwells within us. This love is not just reserved for those who return it, nor is it especially about how many gifts, and what kind of gifts one is going to be receiving. Nor is this love reserved for those who are amorously infatuated with one another. True love, that is true Christian love, can be seen in the real person of St. Valentine, who was a priest in Rome, who was martyred on the Flaminian Way by Claudius Caesar in the year 269 A.D. on February 14th. St. Valentine cared for the sick and gave healing to many. He also provided counsel to those who were suffering in this life, preaching the Word of God boldly to lost souls in the midst of great persecution from the Roman government. His love for his fellow man transcended all earthly threats and punishments, and he willing gave his life for the Gospel, being beaten and beheaded for preaching the Gospel. He sacrificed himself, so that others might believe on our Lord Jesus Christ.

This is quite the different story from some dude in a toga shooting bows and arrows at people so that they might have amorous feelings toward one another, that we normally see attached to this feast day. But this is the type of love, the love of self-sacrifice, that our Lord Jesus wants us to learn about, for it is the same love that was in Him, and on account of our Holy Baptism, and our hearing of the Gospel, and our participation in the Lord's Supper and the other means of grace, that this love dwells within us richly. Let His love fill you, so that you might share that love with those around you.

God be with you!

Deacon Dulas

Take a Wife For My Son Isaac: Genesis 24:1-28

Genesis 24:1-28: "1 Now Abraham was old, well advanced in age; and the LORD had blessed Abraham in all things. 2 So Abraham said to the oldest servant of his house, who ruled over all that he had, 'Please, put your hand under my thigh, 3 and I will make you swear by the LORD, the God of heaven and the God of the earth, that you will not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I dwell; 4 but you shall go to my country and to my family, and take a wife for my son Isaac.' 5 And the servant said to him, 'Perhaps the woman will not be willing to follow me to this land. Must I take your son back to the land from which you came?' 6 But Abraham said to him, 'Beware that you do not take my son back there. 7 The LORD God of heaven, who took me from my father's house and from the land of my family, and who spoke to me and swore to me, saying, "To your descendants I give this land," He will send His angel before you, and you shall take a wife for my son from there. 8 And if the woman is not willing to follow you, then you will be released from this oath; only do not take my son back there.' 9 So the servant put his hand under the thigh of Abraham his master, and swore to him concerning this matter. 10 Then the servant took ten of his master's camels and departed, for all his master's goods were in his hand. And he arose and went to Mesopotamia, to the city of Nahor. 11 And he made his camels kneel down outside the city by a well of water at evening time, the time when women go out to draw water. 12 Then he said, 'O LORD God of my master Abraham, please give me success this day, and show kindness to my master Abraham. 13 Behold, here I stand by the well of water, and the daughters of the men of the city are coming out to draw water. 14 Now let it be that the young woman to whom I say, "Please let down your pitcher that I may drink," and she says, "Drink, and I will also give your camels a drink"--let her be the one You have appointed for Your servant Isaac. And by this I will know that You have shown kindness to my master.' 15 And it happened, before he had finished speaking, that behold, Rebekah, who was born to Bethuel, son of Milcah, the wife of Nahor, Abraham's brother, came out with her pitcher on her shoulder. 16 Now the young woman was very beautiful to behold, a virgin; no man had known her. And she went down to the well, filled her pitcher, and came up. 17 And the servant ran to meet her and said, 'Please let me drink a little water from your pitcher.' 18 So she said, 'Drink, my lord.' Then she quickly let her pitcher down to her hand, and gave him a drink. 19 And when she had finished giving him a drink, she said, 'I will draw water for your camels also, until they have finished drinking.' 20 Then she quickly emptied her pitcher into the trough, ran back to the well to draw water, and drew for all his camels. 21 And the man, wondering at her, remained silent so as to know whether the LORD had made his journey prosperous or not. 22 So it was, when the camels had finished drinking, that the man took a golden nose ring weighing half a shekel, and two bracelets for her wrists weighing ten shekels of gold, 23 and said, 'Whose daughter are you? Tell me, please, is there room in your father's house for us to lodge?' 24 So she said to him, 'I am the daughter of Bethuel, Milcah's son, whom she bore to Nahor.' 25 Moreover she said to him, 'We have both straw and feed enough, and room to lodge.' 26 Then the man bowed down his head and worshiped the LORD. 27 And he said, 'Blessed be the LORD God of my master Abraham, who has not forsaken His mercy and His truth toward my master. As for me, being on the way, the LORD led me to the house of my master's brethren.' 28 So the young woman ran and told her mother's household these things."

This evening we get to meet Rebekah, Isaac's future wife for the first time. The servant of Abraham takes an oath to find for Abraham's son a wife from his own people, and not from among the Canaanites. One might wonder, "why not?" This is most likely due to the Canaanites worshipping false gods and idols. However, the hometown of Abraham, would likely have a woman who was raised to believe and worship the One True God.

This is seen in the young maiden Rebekah. Not only does she willing help a stranger, but also was willing, and even offered without any prompting to water the strangers camels until they had had enough to drink. Keep in mind, that this servant of Abraham could have easily drawn water for himself, and his camels. But the actions of Rebekah show a self-less heart, a heart eager for helping others. Rebekah embodies the fulfillment of the second table of the Law. Love thy neighbor as thyself.

If one loves themselves, they are going to care of themselves. Case in point, we feed ourselves, we clothe ourselves, we put shelter over our heads, we find companionship for ourselves, in other words, we do good things for ourselves, because we care about ourselves. Our Lord God, commands us to love our neighbors, that is, our fellowman, in the same way that we do ourselves. We are required to treat everybody else, in the same way that we treat ourselves.

Clearly, none of us live up to this standard. Most of us our self-serving, and not selfless. Think about it, would we have acted in the same way that Rebekah acts, if some stranger asked us to take time out of our busy day to give them some of the water that we drew for ourselves, and we can assume her family? If we are honest, the answer is probably no. But Rebekah even goes a step further, in that she offers to give water to this strangers camels, without him asking. Would we do likewise? More than likely not.

We can see in this narrative an example of our Lord's words when He says that if someone asks for our tunic, we should give him our cloak as well, or when someone asks us to walk a mile with him, to go two miles with him. In other words, a heart that is truly full of love and grace, will not just do the minimum asked of it, but will gladly and willing do more than asked. How many of us can say the same is true of us?

In Rebekah's actions, we see a picture of the Good Samaritan, who not only helps someone who is a stranger, but by all accounts an enemy. The Good Samaritan is a picture of our Lord, who bandages our wounds that we received through sin, and gives us to the innkeeper, that is, the minister, to take care of us until He returns.

Rebekah is the perfect woman, for she is the picture of our Lord Jesus. In her selfless acts, she prefigures our Lord whose selfless acts of suffering and death freed us from the bondage of sin and death, so that we might enjoy forgiveness of our sins. Our Lord's death, burial, and resurrection is the living water for our souls, for it nourishes and comforts us, it relieves us from the hard journey through the desert and wilderness of this earthly life. Therefore, we come to the Church to hear this good message, in order that we might be given this refreshing water, to relieve us of our thirsty sin-parched lives.

May this water of life, comfort and refresh you, as you come to the Lord's house to hear His holy Word, and receive His Blessed Sacraments.

God be with you!

Deacon Dulas